When it comes to the form of wealth that makes your life most rich, spending time with the intention of enjoying life experiences with friends and family is the key to happiness. According to a growing body of social science research, the best way to increase the enjoyment, satisfaction, and general happiness for both you and others is to create real-life experiences. It all relates back to the basic idea that we are fundamentally social creatures with brains that evolved for connection and community. The wealth we seek the most isn’t in our finances; it’s in our family and friends. The abundance we covet the most isn’t making money; it’s making memories! As I like to say, “Money is the currency of transactions; happiness is the currency of interactions.”
Society teaches us that happiness is a result, something you achieve or gain through accomplishments.
But a growing body of scientific research shows the opposite. Happiness is a state of mind, an attitude that can be nurtured and nourished regardless of external factors.
In fact, science demonstrates that people who are happy first are more successful later on: they have more energy and show more passion. And their enthusiasm is contagious. This is the foundational idea behind ABSRI: happiness matters now.
We unleash the passion of individuals, teams, customers and others by helping them put happiness first. We harness happiness to make a difference in lives, in businesses—and in the world.
When the former U.S. Surgeon General, Dr. Murthy, was asked what is the greatest health crisis of our time, he responded without hesitation, “It’s not cancer. It’s not heart disease. It’s isolation. It is the pronounced isolation that so many people are experiencing that is the great pathology of our lives today.” There exists a silent and growing epidemic lurking in our society; one that poses a greater risk for illness and mortality than smoking, obesity, and addiction. It is the illness of loneliness and the epidemic of emptiness. The news is even worse for Gen Z (those between 18-22) who report being the loneliest of all Americans. But there’s hope! Studies reveal that engaging in communal activities, doing volunteer work, and feeling a sense of purpose in life are all powerful ways to combat the epidemic of emptiness and boost resilience and happiness. Read more here.
What a perfect way to honor Mother’s Day Weekend! A study now shows that it’s your mom—more than your dad—that pass on the genes for intelligence to you. While intelligence is both a product of genetics and environment—and, yes, your dad does play an important role—researchers find the best indicator for predicting intelligence is the IQ of the mother, not the father. It appears that these “conditioned genes” of intelligence get transmitted more strongly from your mother’s DNA, not your father’s. I guess it really is safe to say that moms know best. Thanks, Mom! Enjoy Video.
Happy Earth Day! While taking steps to protect the planet and care for the environment are important goals, you might not know how powerful a role Nature has on your health and happiness. Let’s face it, humans were never meant to sit inside staring at a computer screen for 9 hours a day; the human brain evolved in Nature. In a world that has become increasingly disconnected from the natural world, there exists a powerful and primal draw to commune with Nature. It’s literally in our DNA! It’s a calling that exists in the depth of our soul. There now exists a growing body of research that affirms how being in Nature is one of the most powerful antidotes to stress and anxiety. Enjoy learning more about the powerful connection we have with nature in this great National Geographic video.
This week we marked The International Day of Happiness. Whether you celebrated it or not, personally, I find this day reminds us of how we are all united in the universal quest for happiness. Regardless of your race, faith, politics, or social status, seeking happiness transcends the human condition. While the pursuit of happiness has been a hallmark of timeless spiritual wisdom, only recently is more research in brain science and behavioral psychology revealing a profound truth—we are wired for happiness. Sadly, most of us unwittingly engage in actions and favor behaviors that sabotage our innate ability for leading a life of sustainable happiness and authentic health. Please enjoy the debut newsletter I wrote as my new role as a Contributing Editor for Conscious Good that shares three findings about the “Science of the Happy Mind.”
When it comes to your health and happiness, there’s a new tool in your well-being arsenal—art! Whether you enjoy music, drawing, painting, coloring, or simply doodling, a new study reports that just 45 min. of practicing art lowers the stress hormone cortisol. Art in whatever form boosts your brain, body, and being! All the more reason we need to promote art-therapy and arts education in hospitals and schools. No matter how you look at it, we all benefit from the Art of Happiness. Learn more about the study below.
A new, remarkable study puts a twist on the phrase “Great minds think alike.” It should really say, “Great brains fire alike.” And that’s exactly what appears to happen in the brains of people who are best friends.
More precisely, the closer the friends are the more alike is the brain activity in regions that govern emotion, reasoning, and attention. What that means is that we tend to become best friends with those that process the world in powerfully similar ways. As the lead researcher of the study aptly states, “You can predict who people are friends with just by looking at how their brains respond.”
So, if you’ve ever wondered why you and your best friend share the same sense of humor or the same outlook on life, it might just have to do with how similarly your brains view the world. I guess the old adage “Birds of feather flock together” should really be “Brains of friends fire together.” Read more…
What makes life most rich isn’t a measure of how much you have, but how much you love. It’s a truth that’s been advanced by spirituality and now a powerful assertion being affirmed by more brain science research. We are essentially social creatures that thrive on love and connection. Love is a universal need that transcends humanity; the drive for social connection is a core feature of the human experience!
Brain science reveals a powerful finding—love and connection are essential for your brain to function, just as much are blood and oxygen. While human biology requires food and water for survival; the power of love and the yearning for connection are equally as vital for life. And it’s not just romantic love! Whether it’s the cherished love that comes from being with your partner, family, friends, or even your pet; love and connection are what fundamentally enrich your life. Love is the wealth we most seek for a happy and health life! Wishing you all a Happy Valentine’s Day. Learn more about the brain science behind love.
Human life demands tribe! Like food, shelter, sleep, or love, tribe is fundamental for your health and happiness. Tribe is an evolutionary product of the social brain—the fundamental idea that the human brain evolved to become a social organ that was key for organizing into tribes for the sake of survival, sustenance, and safety. More research in brain science and behavior reveals it is the lack of tribe that increases your risk for disease and death. When you lack tribe in your life, you experience social bankruptcy and emotional poverty. It is the eternal power of tribe that has always been the key behind your and humanity’s success story. It’s time we try; it’s time we tribe! Enjoy short video.
You all know that eating the right foods, enjoying a goodnight’s sleep, and getting moderate exercise promote wellbeing and longevity. There’s something else every human requires for optimal health and happiness that is often ignored in today’s world—social connection! Humans are fundamentally social beings with brains that evolved for social solidarity as a strategy for survival. Yet, we are living in a time of “social bankruptcy” — a society driven by psychological debt where feelings of loneliness and despair are alarmingly on the rise. As former U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Murthy states, “The greatest health crisis of our generation is the illness of isolation.” Recent studies indicate that enjoying strong social connections increase your chance for longevity as much as 50%. So the next time you watch a movie together as a family, catch up with a friend over coffee in realtime, or celebrate those special moments with your loved ones, you’re doing more than just having a good time—you’re boosting your health and living longer! Learn more…